How can I style my hair if im in 7th grade and just a beginner?

Hi. I am an african american girl and I want to take on the responsibilities of taking care of my own hair. My hair is not relaxed, but I used the Just For Me Texture Softener which makes hair easier to manage while leaving your natural curls. I have a lot of just for me products to use on my hair and greases to use such as hindu sheen, Africa's Best SUPER GRO, Jam, and Lano Lustre. As for the Just For Me products, I have the oil moisterizing lotion, the detangler, the smoothing gel and the scalp conditioner which is grease. But i have no idea at all how to use them. I need help! My hair goes about 5 inches past my shoulder when it is flat ironed (which I don't know how to do) I have always used garnier fructis or pantene on my hair as shampoo and conditioner and i dont know how to wash my hair. I dont now how to do anything with it! Can you please give me some tips on styling and please tell me how to use the products I have listed. Or please give me a link telling me how. I'm counting on you!



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and you can look at accounts on youtube



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She has relaxed hair

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has natural hair

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4cPpBJDoE鈥?/a>How can I style my hair if im in 7th grade and just a beginner?
Hey, I kinda know how you are feeling! I am a girl ad in seventh grade 2 ;) Flat ironing is REALLY easy.! I thought it was hard but after you get the hang of it it is WICKED easy! Neway that is one option. You could also get your hair cut shorter, or even layers! If you dont know what layers are, layers are different hair lengths like the bottom could be long and the top short! Put the the detangler in your hair after you take a shower its much easier! Hope some of it helped..?? Easier for an answer from someone your age